Weddings at St Swithin's

 

St Swithin’s is essentially a village church and is particularly pretty as the venue for a traditional family wedding.  Having said that, they don’t occur very often but perhaps that is just a sign of the times! 

As many as 120 people have been fitted into the body of the church, which of course now has a loo for those who have travelled some way to the celebration, and when the roses are out round the entrance to the church it is a lovely backdrop for photographs.

We have been collecting such photos as a pictorial record of our couples starting off their lives together.  We were unable to trace any photographs before 1945, and the first one in the Wedding Album (Volume One) was of the wedding of Stanley Haigh to Barbara Ivory in June 1945, followed in July that year by Francis Haigh to Joan Biggs.  Interestingly, the last picture in Volume One was taken in May 1997, of Richard Kingston to Sarah Langford, the granddaughter of Stanley and Barbara.

With the new millennium Volume Two was started.  Only eight weddings so far, but each very special, particularly when the flower arrangements reflect the nature of the venue, the country church, and the two bells, dated 1275, are rung to announce the completion of the ceremony, thus continuing the 750 year tradition of the English Wedding.

The most recent wedding celebrated in Thorley was that of Mark Dyer and Laura Barsdell on 6th September 2014.  This was really special as Mark is the local Chimney Sweep and has “Weddings attended” painted on his van in keeping with the old thought that a sweep in attendance would bring luck to  the  couple.  Mark gathered his friends  for the occasion, made sure that his brushes

were clean, and when the new Mr and Mrs Dyer came out of the church to the sound of the bells, they had an arch of brushes to walk through!  A picture is attached. Returning to the Albums:  not only do they provide a pictorial history of village families but also an interesting slant on the fashions of wedding dresses over the years – “Vogue” or “Hello”:  who needs them?  St Swithin’s provides it all!